There is a beautiful Japanese saying: “Nake wa hito no tame narazu” (Kindness is not just for the sake of others).

People often misunderstand this phrase, thinking it means, “Being too kind to someone isn’t good for them, so you should keep your distance.” But in reality, it means the exact opposite.

It teaches us a heartwarming circle of life: “The kindness and compassion you share with others will eventually make its way back to you. So, always be kind.”

As we reach our mid-30s, we might start feeling a little tired of trying to please everyone like we used to in our 20s. You might notice that your circle of relationships is becoming smaller and deeper.

Please know that this doesn’t mean you’ve become cold or lonely. It’s simply proof that you’ve finally figured out who truly matters to you.

Now that your relationships have become beautifully simple, why not offer a small, quiet act of kindness to the precious people right in front of you, without expecting anything in return?

The gentle warmth you give out today will return to you as an unbelievable wave of love whenever you feel like pausing or running out of breath. And that gentle wave will create a true, peaceful place where you truly belong

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