- Introduction We often tend to view things through the lens of what we consider “normal” or “right.” But if we pause and change our perspective, the scenery of our daily lives begins to change. The keywords are “Absolutization” and “Relativization.” Understanding the difference between these two can lighten your heart and help you embrace diverse cultures and values with kindness.
- What is “Absolutization”?
- Meaning: Deciding that something is “absolutely right” or the ultimate standard.
- Example: Believing that your own country’s culture and manners are the only correct way.
- The Impact: When your own worldview becomes the standard of the world, it can sometimes lead to rejecting other values or creating unnecessary stress in your life.
- What is “Relativization”?
- Meaning: Recognizing that “compared to other standards, this is just one of many forms.”
- Example: Realizing that “compared to cultures in other countries, my country’s manners are just one local rule.”
- The Impact: Stepping outside of the “absolute” box allows you to view the world with a broader horizon, creating the space to accept differences and respect one another.
- Applying This to Daily Life and Cross-Cultural Communication
- In language teaching and cross-cultural exchanges, stepping away from absolutizing “Japanese ways” helps foster genuine communication.
- For personal peace of mind, letting go of “it has to be this way (absolutization)” and embracing “there are other ways to look at it (relativization)” softens everyday pressure.
- Conclusion Remove the lens of absolutization and try wearing the glasses of relativization. It might just be the key to freeing yourself from self-imposed chains and living a lighter, more authentic life. Why not “relativize” some of the everyday assumptions around you?
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